a month ago
I honestly never thought I’d be writing another review about this venue, but after tonight I feel people deserve to know how I have been treated. A few months ago, I heard a deeply offensive homophobic slur being used right next to me. It began with F.. so it’s not a hard conclusion to get to.. I reported it to the bar staff and every member of staff available to me at the time. I was told they would “have a strong word” with the person. He remained inside the venue and was still there when I left. I later wrote an honest review about what happened. The venue contacted me, explained that they had dealt with the situation, and I removed my review in good faith because I believed them. Tonight I tried to enter the venue and discovered that my ID had apparently been blacklisted. I then spent around half an hour being lectured by the head of security ( I assume, either way it was apparent he had skin in the game), who repeatedly told me that the original incident “had nothing to do with me” because the slur wasn’t supposedly directed at me personally. Apparently hearing a homophobic slur, being affected by it and reporting it to staff doesn’t make it my business. I was also told I shouldn’t have publicly “blasted” the venue and should have spoken to him directly on the night. Where was he? I spoke to the staff who were actually available to me. That’s exactly what I should have done.Tonight I got told that the venue wouldn’t publicly blast me for my actions, so why should I do the same… I’d truly hope and have more faith in the clubs of Stoke that me reporting an issue wouldn’t lead to a mass issue with my attendance in venues.. but I guess we shall see What is particularly ridiculous is that I removed my original review after being told the situation had been dealt with. I gave this venue the benefit of the doubt. I trusted them. And somehow, months later, I’m the one who’s blacklisted. I spent so long tonight listening to this treatment and questioning myself that it took my best friend standing beside me and telling me, “You don’t deserve to be treated like this,” before I finally walked away. She was right. I reported behaviour I found offensive. I didn’t cause it. I didn’t lie about it. I gave the venue an opportunity to resolve it, and I removed my review when I believed they had done so.. baring in mind the person I complained about was still in the venue before I left. Gossip have had the time to I.D me, so I beg them to fact check me on this. Please review your footage.. who left the venue first, me or him? It’s clear you have the capability to review this. The way I’ve been treated tonight has completely destroyed any goodwill I had towards this place. If this is how you treat someone for speaking up about homophobic behaviour, then perhaps the problem isn’t the person leaving the review. Perhaps the problem is the venue. I won’t be returning, and I certainly won’t be recommending it. I gave you the benefit of the doubt once. You won’t be getting it twice. Before you come back with “it was dealt with” or “you shouldn’t have written the review” — save it. I was there, and he was still inside when I left. If you have evidence he was removed before then, I’m happy to see it. Otherwise, there’s nothing to debate. Thanks for the chat. Enjoy pandering to the straight crowd x
Review from Google Maps


