Wilde Cork

I’m incredibly disappointed with Wilde. My partner and I were excited to visit and support what we understood to be an LGBTQIA+ space while in Cork. However, we were turned away at the door because of my pants, which the bouncer described as “track pants,” stating the venue is “formal only.” What’s frustrating is that there is no clear mention of a dress code on their website, social media, or recent reviews. We specifically checked ahead of time, so being denied entry after going out of our way to visit felt both confusing and disappointing. For a venue that positions itself as an inclusive LGBTQIA+ space, the experience felt anything but welcoming. Clear communication of expectations, especially something like a dress code seems like a basic step to avoid situations like this. Unfortunately, this left a poor impression and made us feel unwelcome in a place we were excited to support.

I must say that the staff here are lovely. However, as a gay person, the amount of straight people here is unreal. It is absolutely pointless going to a “gay bar” these days. Overall there is a nice atmosphere and good drink. Not a safe space as a gay woman in my opinion. I have had several very straight men come on to me tonight, one of whom was not taking no for an answer and was just plain creepy... and there were even more straight women in the establishment. No point in calling it a gay bar really… I was in the female toilet also at one stage of the Friday night, and there were 3 males in there with one female (this wouldn’t be permitted in other establishments such as The George) it didn’t feel right or safe. Anyway, I won’t be coming here again.

The waitresses at this club are disrespectful to customers. I'm not the only victim, and they're racist too. They treated me like I did outside, and I'd put her where she belongs. Almost everyone I know doesn't come anymore. Anyway, I'm leaving my comment here even if it's not important to others. Comments can change a lot of things! I'm leaving it here; I'll never delete it.

The staff were exceptionally kind, especially the female security guard at the door. Was so kind to me and all my lgbt and trans friends. I will be back!!!!

I went there and basically there was a female bouncer who was quite rude when she was speaking and the guys were a bit racist for some reason they showed quite pathetic behavior. To be honest, I was very excited before but after this experience i do not want to come back. And i was on holidays!